Opinion

Marie Louise McConville: Covid-19 is traumatising our young children

The return to school has seen young children across the north being tested for Covid-19
The return to school has seen young children across the north being tested for Covid-19 The return to school has seen young children across the north being tested for Covid-19

I suppose it was bound to happen eventually - and 18 months in, it did.

So far, the McConville household has managed to mostly escape the Covid-19 pandemic.

Yes, we have been touched by it in many ways - the mask wearing, the social distancing, the hand washing, the queuing at shops, the sacrificing play dates and family meet-ups. We all have had to play our part.

But, at 7.18am last Monday morning, I received the text that all parents are currently dreading: "There is positive Covid case in your child's class."

It added that Abbie had to isolate and we had to book her a PCR test.

I suddenly felt very stressed.

Almost immediately, my phone buzzed with a message from my friend, whose daughter is also in Abbie's class and who had also received the message.

We texted each other, anxious and unsure of what to do next.

Of course, the text had arrived as I was trying to get the kids up.

We managed to get downstairs - my mind all over the place - as I made breakfast.

My thoughts then turned to James - could he still go into school? If not, could I take him to the testing centre with me?

The only positive in all of this was the fact that I was off work that day and didn't have to navigate that also.

Soon we got a test booked, 14 miles away as there was nowhere closer available.

After contacting the school, I was informed James could go in but was told if Abbie's test came back positive, both would have to remain off school.

However, if it was negative, as long as I sent a copy of the results to the school, Abbie could return to school the next day.

It was a difficult drive to the test centre as I could see how anxious Abbie was about getting the test done - she is only six after all.

On arriving, I was horrified to learn I had to do the test on her and I'll be honest, it was a horrible experience which made me feel sick.

She really hated it and I felt so sorry for her.

Of course, knowing she had to get the same thing done on day eight made her feel all the worse and on the way home, there were tears.

Surely there must be a better way to do this?

Surely we can come up with another way of testing, and how about small satellite test sites at schools instead of having to take a worried wreck of a child 14 miles to get it done?

I can see how the test and experience has affected her and I can only hope it doesn't stay with her.

I fear though this could be start of a very long and traumatic road for our children.

We've done our best to shield our kids from the full impact of Covid up to now but it seems this may simply not be enough.

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