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Ask The Expert: How can I reassure my child about world events?

Boys who have fled fighting in Mosul at a camp for internally displaced people in Iraq at the weekend Picture: Hussein Malla/AP
Boys who have fled fighting in Mosul at a camp for internally displaced people in Iraq at the weekend Picture: Hussein Malla/AP Boys who have fled fighting in Mosul at a camp for internally displaced people in Iraq at the weekend Picture: Hussein Malla/AP

Q: "My 13-year-old daughter is becoming increasingly anxious about world events, but she seems very young to be worried about things like this – how can I reassure her?"

A: Peter Wanless, chief executive of the NSPCC, says: "The world can be a worrying place for adults, let alone children. In our 24/7 news environment, we're bombarded with reports of serious and distressing events which adults may find easier to process and put in perspective. However, the younger generation may be more directly affected by repeatedly being exposed to harrowing images and words from around the world, especially when viewed through the filter of social media.

"This is reflected in the fact that, last year, the NSPCC saw a 35 per cent increase in anxiety, with 11,706 children and young people being counselled by Childline for the problem in 2015/16, compared to 8,642 in 2014/15.

"The causes for this rise were identified as a combination of both personal and political concerns. To address this worrying trend, you should consider your own reactions, as children will look to see how you handle the news to determine their own approach.

"Listen carefully to your child's fears and worries, and offer reassurance and comfort. Avoid complicated and worrying explanations that could leave them more frightened and confused.

"In addition, help them find advice and support to understand distressing events and feelings."